Since the beginning of rational thoughts, men has been asking- what does a women want?
What a man wants for instance as always been simplified. Sex, food, sport and the money and power to get the first 3.
Perhaps in simpler times, but honestly I think what men wants is far more complex than women give them credit for. Women generally wants two things: Love and Support. Someone to love them, as unconditionally as possible and someone to support and spoil them- emotionally if they have the cash themselves and financially whenever possible. If all three are not possible (usually very hard to come together), a very strong inclination of one of them would have to do...
Men on the other hand... mmm... strive for perfection. A beauty, with a kind heart, a smart head on her shoulder, funny, interesting, understanding, gives them space and someone who would be a good mother to his children..
Obviously these prefect creatures are far and in between.. and once in a while some people come close to finding it.. and yes, while no one is perfect, you might get cheated on with...
puuhhh girls on the furthest away scale worthy of your time.
Good example:
Tiger Woods .. now, men cheating is nothing new.. but his taste in these "
mistresses" yikes.. perhaps for an average joe.. but goodness sake.. you are the richest athlete in the world- get a
Victoria Secret Model or at least whatever George Clooney is getting.. but these
plastic women... mmm... what do men really want... really...
At least Brad Pitt left Jennifer for Angelina but what if he left her for Lindsay Lohan! Or one of those girls from The Hills.
You could be dating Elizabeth Hurley.. but no... you like cruising for road side snacks. You could be married to Halle Berry or Princess Diana but heck.. you are not happy...Here's a list of Time's
Top 10 Mistresses very very incomplete but it's a good sampling of "... whatttt???" some I could understand.. perhaps they are not the world's most attractive women but they are soul mates... and you are in love... bla bla.. divorce your wife then.. but other are just *duhhhh*
There is no rhyme or reason to how men choose their women perhaps they really want a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the living room and a whore in the bedroom and perhaps really they need different women to fulfil they myriad of needs- some perhaps need one but an awfully odd choice..
But women, easy.. see a hot chick with an ugly dude.. he must be rolling in cash or have a silver tongue and know how to spoil her. Nearly always true isn't it?
Recently I have found the most
obedient husbands to be married really to women who treat them like dogs, work them like a horse and milk them like a cow. And these women are always complaining and these men always work hard at trying to make them happy...
So if there is a lesson learnt from all this. I am going to treat my next partner like crap and because men are irrational being in any case and treating them well is a waste. Perhaps there is some truth in "treat them mean, keep them keen" ... silly men.
Men complain always about gold diggers and superficial bitches.. but hey, women who play nice are rarely treated well.. and that is a sad fact in life. Not always true... but nearly always true. Just look around you.
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